Destination: St. Barths

I think most people think of St. Barths as a couples destination and while it exceeds in this department, we had the absolute best time as a family… so much so that our children are constantly asking when we are going back! While St. Barths is difficult to get to, that is probably what makes it so special. A remote little island in the middle of the bluest and warmest Caribbean water make this a place unlike any other. Top it off with the French culture and it makes it extremely unique and incredibly charming. When you ask our children what makes it so special, they will first say everything! But secondly, they will tell you that it is the only destination we have ever been to where Mommy gets in the ocean every day. The water exceeds all expectations and leaves you desiring a daily plunge or more realistically an hour long float. My skin definitely took a beating from the sun exposure, but I will tell you it was worth every sun spot. St. Barth’s is truly one of the most magical places I have ever been and I can’t wait to go back! One hot tip is that the best way to get there is though San Juan, Puerto Rico with a transfer on Tradewinds. This ended up being such a game changer and I highly recommend it over the St. Martin transfer option. Here are some of my top recommendations based on our experience.

Where to Stay

Eden Rock

We are biased as this is where we stayed and absolutely LOVED it! Everyone was so warm and welcoming to our children and we had the best room setup that we have ever experienced as a family of five (which is difficult, especially overseas). The hotel’s location couldn’t be better as you are a two minute ride from the airport and is one of the only places in the world where being situated next to the airport is hightail desirable as you get to watch the incredible take off and landings at the world’s trickiest runway. The rooms are spacious and luxurious and the beach coudln’t be any more pristine. I especially loved the swim platform to give you a destination to swim to. There is only one restaurant, The Sand Bar, that accommodated breakfast, lunch and dinner, but it is spectacular and we never were bored of the view or the cuisine. You are approximately a 12 minute car ride to Gustavia, the harbor where all of the shopping is. And another great feature is that you can walk to two of the beach clubs, Nikki Beach and Nao, if you are trying to avoid jumping in a car/moke.

Cheval Blanc

I recently had friends stay here and they said it was the perfect romantic destination. An idyllic white setting with the bluest waters and not only features a pool (Eden Rock doesn’t have a pool), but it is situated on the other side of the island so it is more tranquil and doesn’t have the Nikki Beach vibe next door. From the rooms to the cuisine, it leaves nothing to be desired and is highly recommended by all who visit.

Le Barthélemy

Another tranquil and gorgeous option is Le Barthélemy, who just receive Condé Nast Traveler Readers’ Choice Award for Top 5 Best Resorts in he Caribbean for the seventh consecutive year. This property also features a pool and spa and modern rooms that are all along the water. A true gem in the Caribbean.

Le Guanahani

Rosewood’s newest offering in the Caribbean, Le Guanahani is cherished for its authentic reflection of the island. This resort offers two pools, a Spa, Fitness center, tennis court and a Rosewood Explorers children’s club. It has come highly recommended for families traveling to the island.

Where to Eat

Sand Bar

A perfect blend of melt into the ocean views coupled with exquisite cuisine. We loved every meal there including the fabulous breakfasts! This restaurant can accommodate Gluten allergies with advanced notice.

Nikki Beach

A over the top fun and eclectic mix of food and people watching that is more of a day club atmosphere. It was perfectly fine with children, just don’t go on a Sunday afternoon which is the most wild of all the days.

Bonito

A charming restaurant located above the harbor with views down below. The restaurant feels light and airy and the food was delicious. They have one of the best Children’s Menus I have ever seen with the most beautiful presentation and nutritious options. I wish all restaurants had options like this! We highly recommend this and if you have children, a special treat is the virgin cocktail served in a bubble bath complete with yellow ducky on top.

Tamarin

A jungle-like setting that is a perfect compliment after a day at the beach. There are no ocean views, but the food is a combination of French and Caribbean and lends itself to an exotic culinary experience.

Nao Beach

Located on the other side of Eden Rock than Nikki Beach, this beach club/restaurant offered the best sushi we had during our whole stay on the island. The fish was outstanding! It is smaller and more quaint than NB and I would highly recommend.

What to Do

Boat Excursion

Charter a boat excursion with Master Ski Pilou and enjoy a day out on the water exploring bays to snorkel or ride a Sea Bob.

Rent a Moke

Every hotel concierge can rent you a Moke for the day to explore the island and pose for some photos. If you do it, I highly recommend you venturing over to the airport to watch the planes land. Quite the experience!

Snorkeling at Colombier 

One of the most famous snorkeling spots on the island, this beautiful beach spot is a natural reserve which allows it to be quite vibrant with sea life. You can hike to this location or come via boat, but be forewarned, no Sea Bobs allowed.

Rent Sea Bobs 

Master Ski Pilou is conveniently set up on the beach by Eden Rock where you can rent Sea Bobs, E-Foils and other water activities to lend a hand in your fun in the ocean.

Where to Shop

Poupette St. Barths

Monique “Poupette” Giraud fell in love with the island of St. Barth at the age of 21 and decided to make it her home. Her boutique in Gustavia by all of the other fashion staples is a fun way to see her bohemian garments in person. Known for their fun prints, their lightweight pieces are perfect for the island. They also have a fabulous selection of Mommy and Me dresses and separates.

Orlebar Brown

A British Swim company uniquely for men, this store had an impressive array of St. Barths inspired swim trunks, including the infamous photos of the crystal blue water and airplanes landing like the ones pictured above.

Pipiri Boutique MC2

Here you will discover the MC2 Saint Barth brand which is now know internationally, but has a selective number of exclusive St. Barths labeled swim suits for women, men and children, like the suit pictured above. A fun souvenir that will keep you thinking about returning to the breathtaking island.

Vilebrequin

The largest Vilebrequin store in the world, this two-story beauty is the perfect place to find those difficult to locate patterns for both Men, Women and Children. Their Daddy and Me swimsuits have a cult following (me included) that leave you impressed with quality and in love with the prints!

Eden Rock Boutique

Exceptional selection of trendy brands and unique St. Barths items, this is a must go for me!

If you are planning a trip to St. Barths, you will find yourself always wanting to go back. It is truly one of a kind! Bon Voyage!

Falling Into Fall

Easter Tablescape

Her Royal Fiveness

If throwing parties is a love language, then that would be mine! It brings me so much joy to celebrate my special people and having had mostly experience with boy parties, you can only imagine the joy it brings me to plan an extra girly party. My premise is basic in the sense that I love to create a theme and template that I recreate year after year. With Madison it is a tea party and then we add a different element every year. Last year it was unicorns and this year she insisted on Princesses. That settled the theme: Her Royal Fiveness.

I immediately reached out to the incredibly talented Elisabeth of Pop of Color Balloons. She was instrumental at helping me create the Mood Board that also helped guide the creation of Madison’s custom birthday dress. Elisabeth created the fabulous pink bow for the Inflate 48 Bouncy Castle for last years party and for this year I tasked her with creating five bows for five years. Not only did she select the most perfect Pantone pastel rainbow shades, but then executed them perfectly on the new extra large Inflate 48 Bounce Castle. Let me just say those balloons were a show stopper!

Next was Benedicts Catering who so perfectly executed the most lovely tea party that is targeted for this age group with appetizing tea sandwiches and pastries along with “apple juice” as the tea. They also took care of the fabulous pink table rentals that are always a huge hit! I can’t speak more highly of Dawn, who helps me with all of the details down to having the best staff.

Alpha Lit Phoenix provided the light up “FIVE” which is such a fun element in my opinion and ensure you remember which birthday you are celebrating in the photos.

The gluten free/dairy free cake was done by Jewels Bakery, my go to baker in Phoenix, and represented Madison’s Birthday gift this year, a Herend pink Crown from Scully and Scully that will serve as a memento for her Princess 5th Birthday party.

One of the most important elements of this party is our collaboration with Charlotte Sy Dimby on the Madison birthday dress. This dress was very much inspired by the 2024 Chanel Cruise Collection which feature pastel rainbow hues. These Chanel shoes were part of the inspiration for the mixed thread smocking of the bows that adorn the dress.

As always I like to draw inspiration from current Fashion Collections and was also inspired by this Zimmerman white top and skirt which I will wear for the party. Mixing the elements of this White outfit with the Chanel Cruise Ballett flats seemed like the perfect way to bring to life Madison’s dream dress and pair an existing outfit for Mom.

We are so lucky to partner with L’Amour shoes for yet another year to have the most perfect white Renato dress shoes to elevate the look for this special occasion.

Storybook Goods Birthday Party Hat has been a part of her celebration for the last five parties! Something that she will outgrow, but for now is such a sweet and fun thing to bring out on her birthday. She always gets so excited when she sees her adorable “party hat!” At this point it is synonymous with her birthday!

Madison also wore a custom bow from Layette in Dallas that we ordered while on a girls Shopping trip back in October.

This years pastel rainbow bows smocking was more beautiful than I could have ever imagined. Truly one of a kind!

Another element of surprise was a custom bunny from Binbom bunnies which you can purchase at Charlotte Sy Dimby. This bunny is truly so beautiful and the perfect addition to any celebration. I could not recommend this heirloom piece anymore!

The Enchanted Princess Party was where I found the most perfect Cinderella, Aurora and Belle to help lead activities, apply makeup and sing to the children. This extra touch was very well received, especially by all of the girls in attendance!

The party favors consisted of these darling Her Royal Fiveness themed cookies done by the incredible Mikayla Bakes in Scottsdale, Arizona. The perfect sweet treat that the children started enjoying as they were walking out the door. They were such a hit!

Throwing memorable celebrations for my children is incredibly important to me, as my mother was incredible at doing the same for me as I was growing up. I am still very close with my mom to this day, and a mother/daughter relationship in my eyes is one that should be nourished and respected. As I plan and throw parties for my only daughter, I think about the importance of this relationship and how to incorporate her voice. I am forever grateful for the opportunity to be a girl mom and I want to always remember this quote: “In the garden of relationships, the mother-daughter bond is the rarest and most exquisite flower.”

Photographer: HANNAH LORSCH PHOTO & FILM

Catering: Benedict’s Caterers

Bounce House: Inflate Forty Eight

Balloons: Pop of Color Balloons

Birthday Hat: Storybook Goods

Light up Numbers: Alphalit Phoenix

Dress: Charlotte Sy Dimby

Shoes: L’Amour

Cookies: Mikayla Bakes

Cake: Jewels Bakery

Princesses: The Enchanted Princess Party

Bunny: Bimbom

The Making of Madison’s 5th Birthday Dress

A special birthday tradition that stated last year was the creation of a special dress on Madison’s behalf with the team at Charlotte Sy Dimby. This collaboration process has proven to be so special and one of the things Madison and I look forward to most all year! This year is Madison’s fifth birthday and I would say that she is interested in many of the common girly girly things this age values most: princesses, bows and rainbows. In trying to match her dream dress with an end goal aesthetic, Monique and Sybille helped me come up with the most perfect and idyllic dress for the occasion.

While smocking is their specialty and my favorite look, they were able to combine five colors of thread to come up with the most beautiful pastel rainbow bows I have ever seen! To say that I was amazed how much I adored this look!! It is quintessentially girly and fun!

The details that go into the hand-stiched dresses are mind boggling, and to think all of this is done in Madagascar and then sent to Paris before it makes its way to the United States is just incredible.

As always I like to draw inspiration from current Fashion Collections and was inspired by this Zimmerman white top and skirt as well as the pastel rainbow flats from the current Chanel Cruise Collection. Mixing these elements seemed like the perfect way to bring to life Madison’s dream dress and pair an existing outfit for Mom.

We are so lucky to partner with L’Amour shoes for yet another year to have the most perfect white Renato dress shoes to elevate the look for this special occasion.

The other darling detail is that they made a matching dress for Madison’s American Girl Doll! Truly a treasure to be able to have down to the little bloomers! Not a detail goes unnoticed with this talented team!

This year I am thrilled to be adding one of the precious Bimbom Bunnies to Madison’s collection with custom dresses and either a crown or party hat in adornment. I have to tell you, our bunny just arrived and it just might be the most beautiful and adorable thing I have ever seen. The materials are so soft and elegant and the bunny is much larger than I anticipated. I can’t recommend this purchase enough and they are handmade in Poland! Truly a treasure of a keepsake!

I am beyond grateful for the team at Charlotte Sy Dimby for bringing this dream to life and creating the most elegant rainbow birthday dress I have ever seen! Not only is the dress absolute perfection, but the experience brings even more to the table than I could have ever dreamed of. We will treasure this dress forever and are beyond excited to announce that one lucky little lady will have the opportunity to receive this dress as part of a Giveaway we are announcing on Instagram soon. Please be sure to follow along for all of the entry details!

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The Low Down: Featuring the Ladies Behind Charlotte Sy Dimby

When I think about quintessential little girls smocked dresses, the first thing I think of is Charlotte Sy Dimby. I was most fortunate to learn of the brand back in 2019 from Emily Hertz of Born on Fifth. I instantly fell in love with the quality of the dresses, but maybe even more impressive was the extreme attentiveness of communication and delivery of the spectacular dresses. It was at that time that I struck up a friendship with “Charlotte,” and am beyond grateful to feature both the designer Monique on The Low Down as well as Charlotte.. These two ladies have created the most incredible company and I am thrilled to say that they have helped design another fabulous birthday dress for Madison that we will share more about next week. For now, I am so humbled to bring you their delightful story, please welcome Monique and Charlotte of Charlotte Sy Dimby.

1. Please tell me a little bit about your brand. When was the brand created and what inspired you to create beautiful girls dresses?

Our brand Charlotte sy Dimby is a hymn to the beauty of childhood. Through French style handmade traditional smocked and embroidered dresses, our wish is to make little girls feel utterly unique and special.

All our collections, created in highly limited edition, are designed by our founder and stylist. Aged 76 and fondly nicknamed “Queen of Smocks”, Monique Ramahay is behind each and every piece which is then lovingly crafted with the help of our skilled team members who are like family to us!

Sybille, known as Charlotte, takes care of the Parisian boutique L’Île aux Fées, the e-shop and handles communication. Some relationships are written in the stars : ours is clearly one of those! We are closely linked and share some much in common, we truly believe it was meant to be : “There are no coincidences, only encounters,” said Paul Éluard.

2. Did you have a career in Fashion before launching Charlotte Sy Dimby?

In spite of her artistic talents from an early age on, Monique’s parents strongly encouraged her to take up scientific studies. She graduated with success as an engineer and began her career as an electronic engineer. Yet the company where she was employed faced difficulties and she was made redundant. Five decades ago women in the sector were so rare that she was considered a complete alien. Struggling to find work in the field, feeling that she had studied for nothing, she became very depressed. To fight against this feeling of uselessness and rejection, she turned towards creativity. Using all the tools and objects she could find, she let her imagination flow freely. As her dad said, she soon became successful with her “rags”. This creative experimentation phase was very gratifying and comforted her choice of an artistic career. It brought her renewed joy and encouraged her to take the big leap into the fashion world.

For the funny story, she worked for the American NASA as an intern! An experience she thoroughly enjoyed!

Charlotte studied economics then fashion at the Parisian school ESMOD. However she soon realized her calling was not to create fashion but to highlight it! She began as an intern at the boutique and never left! It was truly love at first sight with both the dresses and most of all with Monique who taught her everything!

3. Where do you see your business 5 years from now? Would you ever branch into other areas of fashion?

In five years, we hope to bring ever greater joy to families all over the world through our dresses and to continue to pass down the secrets of traditional smocks making.

We have created a partnership with HipHip Hooray in Dallas and one in Japan with San Sakae Petit. Whilst wishing to remain unique and exclusive, we would love to develop more of these fun collaborations in which we create limited editions for other boutiques! We’d love to continue making our dresses travel!

One of our projects would also be to create a mummy, daughter and dolly capsule!

And our all time dream would be to host a tea party with all our Charlotte sy Dimby princesses and their families in Paris! Imagine the fancy twirls, the smiles as the little girls meet one another and play in their pretty gowns...

4. Who has inspired you most along the way?

More than a person, 4 quotes constantly guide and inspire us!

“It is truly useful since it is beautiful.” - The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint Exupéry

Creating dresses is our way of bringing beauty and joy to the world. Elegance is our door to a dream world of innocence and bliss! Through our designs, we wish to celebrate the magic of childhood, add a sparkle to these precious fast fleeting years and create happy memories.

“A thing of beauty is a joy forever.” - Poems of Sentiment: IV by John Keats

By creating timeless designs which never go out of style, we imagine our dresses as heirloom pieces to be cherished and passed down from one generation to another. We wish them to be treasured as tokens of love! May they become symbols of happy childhood souvenirs.

“The only wealth is man” - Jean Bodin.

Respecting each and every person entering our universe is our utmost priority. Having our very own atelier, each team member is valued and considered : we are a big family. Our dresses are all handmade and behind each one lies a heart and soul. Caring for each child wearing our dresses and building bonds with families also means a lot to us. Taking part in special moments and making dreams come true, brings us great joy.

“ What is essential is invisible to the eye. It is only with the heart that one can see rightly”- The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint Exupéry

This quote is at the core of our philosophy and guides all our actions. Beyond beautiful dresses, we like to think that we can convey a little more. Keeping traditions alive, passing down the precious know-how of smocks and embroideries in our atelier, supporting families, spreading positivity and optimism are our ways of making the world a better place at our humble level!

5. What is the story behind the name Charlotte Sy Dimby?

Charlotte sy Dimby is our brand name whilst L’Île aux Fées is our boutique name.

Each word had a meaning.

Charlotte :

Classic French girl’s name, popular in France since the fifteenth century, Charlotte holds a special place in our hearts. Indeed, Monique has had the honour of dressing two princesses named Charlotte.

First Charlotte of Monaco. For several years, Monique collaborated with Bonpoint, one of the most elegant French children’s brands. One of the dresses made for Bonpoint which featured little boats was worn by the princess who was 2y at the time. The picture was published in the magazine Point de Vue and met with huge success! Charlotte is also linked to Princess Charlotte of Cambridge. Whilst collaborating with a Spanish brand based in the UK, we were asked to create a collection of smocked dresses. One of them, a lavender blue classic Peter Pan collar and puffed sleeves dress with coral smocks was gifted by our partner to Princess Charlotte of Wales, member of the British royal family. To our utter amazement and delight, the dress which we had lovingly imagined and made from the very first to last stitch, was worn by the princess during an official trip to Canada as part of a royal tour in. We could not have been more honored.

Last but not least, Charlotte has become the nickname of Sybille, in charge of the Parisian boutique and online store. Frequently being called so by mothers and children alike, it is now her second name! She is fond of it!

Sy :

Sy is a symbol of union as it means "and" in Madagascan, mother tongue of our atelier and birth island of Monique. We like to consider Charlotte sy Dimby as a big family, in which all are united to celebrate childhood! Our wish is to create bonds through our collections : trustworthy relationships between the atelier and families, links between generations with dresses passed down as precious heirlooms, ties with children by taking part in their special moments and many more...

Dimby :

Dimby is part of our designer's full last name "Ramahay Mandimby". It means “she/he who is able to pass down and to come after. It is linked to the notion of heritage, this term perfectly matches our values. Keeping the art of smocking and traditional couture alive is at the heart of our brand philosophy.

6. When did you open the store in Paris and do you foresee opening any other locations?

The boutique has been a children’s one for decades. In 2009, when the previous manager decided to retire, Monique, whose dresses were already available among other brands, decided to keep the magic alive and pursue the adventure. It is thus particularly sweet as we now have grandparents who dressed their children at the store, coming back to shop for their grandchildren!

We love our little quaint and authentic boutique nestled in the heart of Paris. We see it a home for friends and families and are therefore happy to keep our location unique! So no new boutique openings planned!

7. What is the best piece of advice you were given? Regarding anything from business to parenting to personal development, etc.?

The four quotes mentioned previously are our best advice! Like a mantra or motto, we have engraved them in our hearts and minds. We strive to live by them!

8. What advice would you give to other women?

Dare to believe in your very own dreams and projects! Strive to be autonomous and independent! The journey may not always be straight forward but after the darkest hour always comes the sunshine. Each day offers a fresh start and new opportunity, we always have a second chance. If you fail, never give up because FAIL means “first attempt in learning” and NO means move on to the “next opportunity”.

9. Is there anything you wish someone had told you along the way?

It is through experience that we learn the most! Don’t wait for someone else to gift you flowers but plant your own garden and decorate your own soul.

10. What does work/life balance look like for you?

We are truly passionate about our “work”. To the point that we don’t consider it as work, the brand is intricately intertwined with our daily life! They say “Find a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” : That's exactly us.

It doesn’t mean it’s all pink and rosy but to quote Mary Poppins this time “In every job that must be done there is an element of fun”.

11. What adversity has challenged you the most, yet made you a stronger person?

In the 90s, Madagascar, home country of our designer and team, faced a huge crisis and the entire island went on strike for over 10 months. This put an end to all overseas partnerships. Monique, who had her children’s clothing company employing 1200 people creating smocked dresses for the best European children’s brands such as Bonpoint, Cyrillus and Jacadi at that time, was forced to close.

However she did not wish to give up her dream! During thirteen years, she sold her dresses on the markets of Paris, Versailles and its surroundings. Working outdoors all day long, constantly driving from one place to another whilst raising three children was tough. In spite of the difficulties, she was happy for she had “the treasure of the heart’ : the ability to make others happy. Through her dresses, she brought joy to mums and little girls. Seeing the dresses worn with bright smiles and then being passed down from sister to sister filled her heart!

Her perseverance gradually paid off and she was able to fulfill the dream of her life and open her very own boutique L’Île aux Fées in the heart of Paris. The challenging circumstances definitely made her a stronger woman.

12. I know you meet so many inspiring women every day, how do you feel we can better support the motto of “Women helping Women?”

Our team is almost entirely composed of women. Valuing their talents and skills, allowing them to be finally independent is a way of empowering them! Our atelier being in Madagascar, birth country of our designer, this takes all its importance. It’s much more than just employees, we are like a family and truly feel responsible for each member’s well being! It’s giving each woman the opportunity to obtain a proper status, to raise and educate their children in good conditions who in turn will be able to allow the island to progress. At our very humble scale, we like to think we can make a difference.

Collaborating on creative projects like yours with the Madison dress is also a way to support women! It allows mums to express their creativity and imagination, to awaken the artist lying deep within the hearts of many.

13. How would you describe your sense of style? If there was one designer who has inspired you most, who would that be?

Monique’s one would be either soft or colorful! Depending on her mood, she will wear dreamy calming soothing pastel as a way to wrap herself in tenderness. When she needs energy, she will gravitate towards very bright, joyful, happy and sometimes rather unexpected shades!

As for Charlotte, she has the immense privilege of being mainly dressed by the team! She loved her beautifully hand smocked and embroidered outfits which fit right in with the boutique ambiance!

Yves Saint Laurent is a deep source of inspiration for the two of us. We look up to the incredible bond he built with Pierre Bergé, uniting their different talents, they were able to bring to life the most fascinating designs! We admire his creations, his incredible fashion shows, his whole universe!

14. What is your favorite splurge or investment “High Bar” piece in your wardrobe?

For Monique, Hermès scarfs! Nothing quite like elegant silk tied around the neck to elevate a look and give that effortless chic Parisian look.

Charlotte is fond of My Chatelles slippers with interchangeable tassels! The most perfect flats for a chic look.

15. What is your favorite trendy yet affordable “Side Bar” piece in your wardrobe?

For Monique, earrings! She loves to change them often according to the trends of the moment! She collects them as a fun accessory.

For Sybille, it would be hair bows! Undoubtedly influenced by our Charlotte sy Dimby princesses, she is very fond of them lately!

16. What is one thing on your wish list for 2024?

To have well prepared the future of the company and those dear to our hearts and thus find even greater serenity allowing us to create even prettier dresses and spread greater joy!

I am truly inspired by these tremendous women and what they continue to accomplish through their beautiful fashion and their dreamy Parisian boutique. It is my wish that I can take Madison there this year to twirl in one of their smocked dresses beneath the Eiffel Tower and to meet both Monique and Charlotte in person. Many many thanks for your incredible words of wisdom and Madison and I look forward to continue seeing all of your beautiful gowns including the grand reveal of Madison’s birthday dress this year! Cheers!

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The Low Down: Featuring Caitlin Geier Fisher, Tastemaker

On the first edition of The Low Down for 2024, I am beyond delighted to present Caitlin Geier Fisher! Caitlin is a tastemaker with a refined aesthetic for all things classic. With an early career in the Fashion Industry, Caitlin was one of the original influencers on social media. Her highly followed blog, Daily Cup of Couture, was not only perfectly polished, but had the best curation of items that was truly ahead of the times. Caitlin and I first met in San Francisco back in 2010 as members of the Junior League and I was immediately captivated with her style and charm. Now as a busy mother of three, Caitlin’s perfect aesthetic for both herself and her darling children has inspired many with her launch of her namesake lifestyle website: CaitlinGeierFisher. I am truly grateful that she took the time out of her incredibly busy life to share with us so many pearls of wisdom! I have always felt a great synergy with Caitlin with her ultimate goal being to “Delight and Inspire!” Welcome, Caitlin!

1. Please tell me a little bit about yourself. Where are you from, where did you go to college and what did you see yourself becoming when you were younger.

I grew up in Rancho Santa Fe, California and attended Stanford University for college. I am truly a California girl as I have lived here for most of my life (apart from a brief stint studying abroad and a Summer in NYC). As a young child I always dreamed of being the First Lady of the United States.  It is funny because I have never heard anyone else say that was their goal as a young child. But, it must have come with my fascination with so many incredible women like Jackie Kennedy and Eleanor Roosevelt. But, fast forward to Stanford and I was a Communications major. I have always loved to write and at that time thought I would work in a traditional form of mainstream media like a magazine or television having had Summer Internships at CNN and Town & Country Magazine. 

2. I would love for you to share your road to becoming one of the original Influencers and creating Daily Cup of Couture to now managing your beautiful Curation of items on CGF? 

Starting my blog came quite organically very soon after graduating from college. At the time I was living in San Francisco and working in merchandising for GAP. It was almost 15 years ago and blogs like the Sartorialist and the like were just becoming very big and we often looked to them for inspiration at work. My now husband said to me then, “you read so many blogs … why don’t you start your own?!” If it weren’t for him suggesting it, I don’t think I would have had the courage to start my blog, Daily Cup of Couture. It became a wonderful creative outlet for me and served as an evolving inspiration board for what was delighting me at the moment. I had always loved editing (particularly after my fashion internship at Town & Country) and I always saw the blog as almost my own mini magazine. I edited Daily Cup of Couture for 10+ years. And as I went through major life changes such as getting married, having children, and changing jobs … it was always my constant that brought me so much joy. 

After I had my second child, I stopped working full time and was able to spend more time on my blog. This is also when Instagram was changing the landscape of blogging and that worked really well with where I was with my life as a stay at home mom. I used to write my blog posts daily during nap time, but also started sharing more of my personal life on instagram and found a nice fluidity between the two. Last year, after almost 13 years of blogging I decided to rebrand and re-do my website to be more reflective of my life and style now. I still truly enjoy sharing my latest finds! 

3. How would you say your career in fashion played a role in what you still do today?

Fashion has been a passion of mine for quite some time and because I had always worked in different facets of it for my career it truly was a jumping off point for starting my blog as explained above. 

4. Where do you see your business 5 years from now? Do you have any collaborations in mind?

This is the question I ask myself daily …. “what do I want?!” Now that all three of my children are in school full time I have more time to focus on myself and my career. I have actually started working in creative and marketing part time for a children’s store I adore, Poppy as well as continuing my own business. 

I have always loved working on collaborations and would love to find ways to do more of those in partnerships with brand. Working directly with product and product development is truly what I miss about my old career and I would love to get to have more of that in my daily life. I have always dreamed of starting my own brand (not exactly sure what!) but I am not ready to take the leap just yet. 

5. Who has inspired you most along the way? 

SO many of the incredible mothers who have built their own brands while raising children. It is awe inspiring to see their drive, determination, and courage as I know it is not easy! For example, watching Morgan from minnow swim build her brand from the ground up is a perfect example. Truly amazing. 

6. How did your college experience play into your role today? 

Going to Stanford has truly been one of my life’s greatest privileges. Particularly, because of the amazing people I met there. Everyone is so interesting and passionate. It has always inspired me to follow my dreams and be the best I can be. 

7. What is the best piece of advice you were given? Regarding anything from business to parenting to personal development, etc.?

When I was trying to make the very hard decision of whether or not to stop working full time after having my second child who had a health issue … my wonderful boss at the time (who had been extremely successful in her career and was also a mother) said to me, “you will never regret spending time with your children”. She was absolutely right. She helped me make that decision with such confidence and I will always be so grateful to her for that. 

8. What advice would you give to other women who are working and raising children?

I would not have been as sane if I did not have this creative work to do alongside raising children. For me, it has truly been a saving Grace although it does make things slightly more complex. But. if you have something you are personally passionate about it can be so fulfilling and it is so wonderful for children to see their mother have that. It is truly worth it. 

9. What does work/life balance look like for you?

Now that all my children are in school for the majority of the day, it has been much easier for me to compartmentalize work and family time.  I try to get anything work related done during school hours so that I can be fully present and in mom mode when they are home from school. Something I am always striving to be better at is to put my phone away when I am with my children. 

10. How, if ever, do you prioritize your well-being? What are some things that you try to squeeze in on a normal busy day that you feel has impacted your day-to-day life?

A treat that always lifts my mood each day is stopping for an iced latte after dropping the kids off at school. It is such a little thing but makes such a difference in my day. I always make it a priority. Another thing I try to squeeze in each week is tennis and/or pickleball. It is my favorite way to exercise and have fun with friends. Checking two boxes! It always makes me feel great! 

11. What adversity has challenged you the most, yet made you a stronger person?

I alluded to this earlier, but my daughter was born with a health condition that we found out about while I was pregnant. She had to have a significant surgery at 9 months old and dealing with that has taught me so much about perspective. I remember people saying to me, “wow you are so strong” and I remember thinking you are strong because you have to be not necessarily because you want to be. It has forever impacted my life and the woman I am.  

12. I know you meet so many inspiring women every day, how do you feel we can better support the motto of “Women helping Women?”

I think sharing and celebrating each other’s successes is the greatest thing we can do! Also, being open and honest with how we got there can be so helpful to others. My favorite part about this industry has been the incredible women I have been able to connect with that I never would have met otherwise. 

13. How would you describe your sense of style?

Classic and refined with a twist on the traditional. 

14. What is your favorite splurge or investment “High Bar” piece in your wardrobe? 

My Chanel ballet flats. 

15. What is your favorite trendy yet affordable “Side Bar” piece in your wardrobe? 

My Massimo Dutti “celine inspired” sweaters! 

16. What is one thing on your wish list for 2024? 

A new Eres one piece swimsuit to wear on our trip to Italy this Summer! But, to be honest the trip itself is the main thing on my wishlist!

Thank you, Caitlin! I know there are so many wonderful things on the horizon for you as you expand your brand and I will continue to be one of your biggest cheerleaders along the way! If you haven’t already, I highly suggest perusing her beautiful website www.caitlingeierfisher.com. Thank you for continuing to inspire and uplift other women and wishing you great success in 2024! Cheers!

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“If you love something, love it completely,

Cherish it, say it, but most importantly show it.

Life is finite and fragile, and just because something

Is there one day it might not be the next.

Never take it for granted. Say what you need to say, then

Say a little more. Say too much. Show too much. Love too much.

Everything is temporary but love. Love outlives us all.”

—R. Queen

The Low Down: Featuring Meghan Guffey, Founder of Bea Colette

On our final Low Down of the year, I’m beyond grateful to present Meghan Guffey, Founder of Bea Colette. Although Meghan and I have never met in person, I feel as though we’ve know each other for years. I have had the great pleasure of working with her as my mentor/advisor for Brittany Anna Rose all while she was launching this incredible platform of well curated selection of boys and girls clothing over at Bea Colette. What I love about Meghan is that despite all of her amazing successes in the business world, she is so down to earth and easy to talk to! She is also insanely knowledgeable about everything social media and her taste in clothing sets a very High Bar! We are now entering the busiest time of year for retail, she is expecting her third baby not to mention juggling family and the holidays and yet she has made time to share her powerful story with us and I am forever grateful! Welcome Meghan!

1. Please tell me a little bit about yourself. Where are you from, where did you go to college and what did you see yourself becoming when you were younger.

I was born and raised in St. Louis, MO and very grateful for my Midwestern upbringing! I went to SMU in Dallas where I played tennis the first year. Following college, I moved to New York where I lived for almost ten years before settling down in Dallas to raise a family. Growing up, I knew I'd do something in fashion and sales. I've always been a natural salesperson -- I don't think (sure hope not!) in a cringey way, but when I'm passionate about something I can't stop talking about it and this led me to a long career in ad sales + brand partnerships before moving into consulting and launching my own business.  

2. I would love for you to share your road to launching Bea Colette? 

Once I became a mom, I channeled my passion for fashion into childrenswear and often found myself shopping across countless websites to find chic, European-inspired styles to match my own personal style. I felt there was no single destination that offered the specific European aesthetic of polished and practical pieces that transition throughout seasons and take your child from playtime to dinner. I found herself seeking out under-the-radar European brands on my travels and via Instagram, but wanted to shop them all in one place. This led me to dream up a European-inspired, highly curated destination built for a discerning female shopper who wants complete outfits, an intuitive and modern user experience, and a seamless checkout. This woman does not want to be inundated with endless new arrivals and brands; rather, she wants a thoughtfully curated assortment, a pleasant experience, and to walk away with pieces that her children can wear on a daily basis. The Bea Colette customer wants her children's style to complement her own. Over the past 1.5 years, I have worked tirelessly to source and refine the right selection of brands, price points, and styles that make Bea Colette what it is today. 

3. Do you plan to go beyond children’s clothing and if so, what would be some of your dream pieces to procure? 

Right now I am really focused on perfecting the childrens category and the brands I carry that evoke the specific European style many of us love. I am constantly sourcing new brands and refining the ones I carry. I am also dead set on ensuring my customer service is top notch. I like to perfect things before taking on too much more -- from a consumer perspective, I see too many businesses out there trying to do too much at once. I want to avoid that and am all about the slow growth approach. 

4. Where do you see your business in another 5 years?

I am hoping it will be a mix of private label designs that I develop under the Bea Colette brand along with lesser known small European family brands that you cannot buy elsewhere in the states. My intention is to always be a vehicle for a select mix of high quality generational family-run brands in Europe.  I have a lot of other ideas, but that's a good glimpse for now! 

5. Part of what you do is working with and consulting female founders, with that in mind who has inspired you most along the way and what do you like most about working with other like-minded women?

Kim Kreuzberger has been a longtime mentor for me and is who encouraged me to embark on the consulting journey. She originally grew Goop's business from 0 to 100 and now runs her own incredible consulting firm Pivot Projects. She is the definition of a business woman and is every woman's cheerleader. She is kind, humble, brilliant and always looking out for others - I hope to emulate even a measure of her greatness! 

6. What is the best piece of advice you were given? Regarding anything from business to parenting to personal development, etc.?

If you work really hard, be kind, and wish others well, amazing things will happen. I live and breathe by this, and have found it to be true. This quote came from Kim! 

7. What advice would you give to other women who are running a business and raising children?

Go at your own pace and put your blinders on! If you want to call it a day at 4pm to spend time with your kids, do it. The business can wait. A slow growth mentality is usually best for both your sanity and ensuring you do spend that quality, precious time with your children! 

8. Is there anything you wish someone had told you along the way?

No, but I will say, starting, funding, and operating your own business isn't for everyone. It takes a lot of patience, stamina, and most importantly, curiosity. If you don't want to know how the ins and outs of running a business works, then it's not the right path to go down. I'm talking taxes, accounting, importing goods, all the things. It's a lot and I've loved every minute of it, but I do know it's not for everyone. 

9. What does work/life balance look like for you?

This is tough to answer right now as it is ever-changing, but ultimately I always listen to my gut. When I need to call it a day on the business front to prioritize my family, I do. I make sure to spend at least 1-2 quality hours with my kids a day. For me, I know I need that in order to not feel regret. I also know I am a workhorse and enjoy working, building, and collaborating more than anything, but every day truly looks different. Weekends are absolutely sacred to me - we rarely get sitters and push pause on work (unless it's during nap time). This is when I really go hard on being a mom and invest in quality family time! What I always say to others in my position is, do what works for you -- if that means spending more time with your family during the weekdays do that. You have to test, learn and optimize. What program produces max productivity work-wise and fulfillment family-wise? We are constantly editing what this program looks like for us, but we know that weekends are where we really shine with our kids. 

10. What adversity has challenged you the most, yet made you a stronger person?

I don't necessarily consider this adversity, but putting my and my husband's own money without any outside capital into building my business from scratch has been both stressful and overwhelming. I am wildy grateful for his steadfast belief in me and my abilities - he has never once doubted me. That said, it's simply overwhelming to think about the money we've poured into my business and will continue to. For the foreseeable future, every dollar earned will go back into the business; this is a stark difference to the very stable New York executive income I am used to making! So far, I am seeing it's worth it, but that doesn't make it any less scary, especially when I have kids to raise, feed, and educate. 

11. How would you describe your sense of style?

Very feminine and classic French girl. I love a pop of red or navy, tweeds, and stripes. I am always in my Chanel flats or slingbacks. Generally speaking, I avoid trends! 

15. What is your favorite splurge or investment “High Bar” piece in your wardrobe?

Chanel ballet flats in as many colors as possible. I have owned several pairs for over a decade and they've endured thousands of New York city miles walked, yet somehow still look fresh and polished. These will never go out of style and go with everything. Also, a classic Oscar dress that makes you feel on top of the world. 

16. What is your favorite trendy yet affordable “Side Bar” piece in your wardrobe?

Zara makes great trendy denim and tops. I am not particularly into fast fashion and would much prefer to invest in fewer, better pieces, but I love their wide leg Marine denim. I know it will only last a season or two, but that's okay due to the price.

Thank you, Meghan! I know there are tremendous things on the horizon for you and I will continue to be one of your biggest cheerleaders! If you haven’t already, Bea Colette is a must stop shop for all of your elevated children’s wear needs. Meghan, you continue to uplift and inspire so many women to go after their dreams including myself, and for that I am forever grateful! Wishing great success in 2024 and wishing everyone a very Happy New Year! Cheers!!!

Closing out 2023

I am incredibly grateful for a wonderful 2023! It has been filled with new adventures, learning, highs and lows and of course dancing! As we get ready to usher in a New Year, I have set some resolutions for myself and for my family.

I love the idea of goal setting and manifesting. I also love the concept of having guidelines to come back to if you feel like you have diverged from the rails. These are my Twelve Resolutions for 2024:

1. Focus on Health!

2. Prioritize 30 mins of movement every day

3. One date with my husband per week

4. One-on-one date with each child one time per month

5. Declutter and get rid of all children’s clothing and shoes that are too small

6. Establish three brand partnerships for BAR in the first half of the year

7. Play more golf

8. Eliminate stress

9. Learn to say NO!

10. Less is More!

11. One gratitude message per day

12. Be a Fountain, Not a Drain!!!

I can’t express my heart-filled gratitude enough for continuing to be on this journey with me and I wish you a healthy and prosperous New Year!

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A Polar Express 8th Birthday

When we first found out we were expecting our second child near Christmas, the thoughts certainly entered our head as to how we could make his day extra special. Thankfully my Oma had her birthday in December and she thought it was the best gift in the world as we were always together and everything was festive that time of year! We embraced that attitude and thankfully so has Max! He tells people all the time how lucky he is to share a birthday with Christmas!

His first birthday started the theme of The Polar Express and we have kept that theme ever since! To keep in theme with the movie we invite the children to have hot chocolate and we of course serve hot cocoa and have a trackless train! This years train was actually electric, so it was nice and quiet and didn’t have any of the stinky exhaust that many of our past trains have had. Max was quite worried that children would outgrow the train this year and not want to ride, but quite the contrary…it was a hit as usual!

One of the other traditions we incorporate is decorating Gingerbread Houses. This year we had almost 60 children with siblings so we decided to do family houses. I purchased the premade Gingerbread Houses from Target, but wanted a way to assign them. I recently started following Courtney Whitmore of Pizzazzerie and used her frosting recipe and bow ideas to label all of the houses. I will admit that to do that for 40 houses took 7 batches of frosting and about 2.5 hours! But the end result was worth it and the children easily knew which house to decorate. We also had a candy bar with all of the containers and cute signs from Michael’s. This was a huge hit, and sugar rush!!

I would say the biggest hit though was the snow globe from Party on a Cloud AZ! The snow globe is a newer item and to say the children were entranced with what it feels like to be in a life size snow globe is an understatement! Balloon Babe of Arizona created the cute Christmas themed balloons that adorned the outside as well as all of the balloons on the inside which made for great fun!

Last, but certainly not least was our incredible spread thanks to Benedict’s Catering. We had our annual Hot Cocoa station complete with all of the toppings you could imagine. As the party was after school we featured gluten free grilled cheese sandwiches, hamburgers and chicken salad for the parents. The show stealer though is always the spectacular cake by Jewel’s Bakery that is Gluten and Dairy free, but certainly not fun free! It was spectacular as always! Max is quite clever and requested a snowman to top his Polar Express themed cake this year as we are all golfers, and in golf we call an “8” on a scorecard a “Snowman.” This cake was as delicious as it was cute!

The biggest lesson I have learned about having a December birthday in our family is that it is all what you make it! We make it the most special and exciting thing, and Max fully feels that way! We are truly grateful for our Christmas baby and celebrating him in a fun and festive way! Happy Holidays!

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